Life is good, beautiful and yummy, they say, enjoy it when you still can…haha wake up!!!!!

they sugar-coated, everything,

…ooh yes they did…

how naive, they cuddled us into falling for those illusions and skipped literally the authenticity and real nature of life. They didn’t mention there were struggles, they didn’t say tough decisions had to be made, I mean they didn’t dare to specify that we will have to lose to gain.

Well, I sat myself down ,did some long hard meditation and I came to realize they didn’t care_at all_ to mention that life can be a cold-blooded betrayer, extremely biased sometimes racist, sexist and the fact that it has no mercy. I suppose, they preferred not to expose all its nature. Or perhaps its meant for us to find out.

Consequently, this is what I found out, life has a companion too… her name is TIME, ooh yes… together they can completely enslave and cave anyone in a cage full of darkness and utter confusion.

The holy book states, Ask and it shall be given, seek and you shall find, knock and the door shall be opened unto you. wow… impressively encouraging

well, am not one to question God, but life makes it sound like there is a specific language we should use, or an exact place to seek, makes it appear like perhaps we’ve been knocking on the wrong door all along. To be precise, LIFE contradicts everything, sayings,quotes, schedules even plans. Its just how it is. Unpredictable.

Mom said we are all born of God and that we are the same in His eyes, but life confirms that some are meant to enjoy life and others must strive first before they break free.

me : Jesus loves me…

life : haha…are you sure?

me: whatever i ask in His name I receive..

life: hilarious, why else are you suicidal??

See, It questions every belief, everything you rely on, leaves you mentally paralyzed, spiritually weak and physically numb.

Nevertheless, its true. life is beautifully fulfilling, exquisitely adorable..


it can also be extremely ugly, torturous and profoundly boring. *side note*… it doesn’t come with filters or shortcuts.

Anyway, life bares all the goodies, but dare not quote-unquote life, its a REALIST, and it only dances to the beats you drum.

You know, on the surface everything seems perfect, on the run and candid. However, people have masked themselves for so long that, no one recognizes the faces beneath. Henceforth, everyone fears to relate with the person behind the mask. And that…that makes life more unbearable, uncertain and scary.

Everyone (in one way or the other) strives to appear the most righteous, most intelligent, most successful and forgetting most importantly what life entails. Definitely, no one wants to fail or be pegged as vulnerable, we hate to be judged,we desire to be understood, to be hugged with loyalty,respect, honesty,and love but sadly we don’t offer the same. Its just how we behave.

And then what???

we end up judging and hating on each other for the very same mistake, we all make

Pretense is the new normal, it has massively escalated in the recent days, people fake to fit in. everyone is saying am hanging up on this, am not going down with that, I don’t want fake friends,

cut the bullshit…

deep down you somehow camouflage too, you fake-fine everything, you fake-smile most people. Eventually, it becomes a tit for tat game, you ignore someone, you get ignored by someone else. You hate someone they reciprocate , you point fingers same happens to you, you judge, you get judged. That’s the human nature,we believe vengeance is the antidote for each pain. Sadly, it complicates our lives too. Even so,we assume, it is what it is.

Karma on the other hand, spares no single soul, it favors no one, its doesn’t care how beautiful you are,how successful you think you are or how heavy your pocket is …no amount of bribe can change its career.It works for the innocent, broken, the weak and voiceless. Its just as it is. It haunts till your last breath.

Always remember that sweet delusions is nowhere near as attractive as the reality, take it or leave it, but don’t fool yourself there’re shortcuts, because there’s none. Do as you may, and forget not that karma is a bitch. Therefore, those who genuinely value authenticity, honesty, reality, friendship

and believes in faith, hope, patience and hard work, you can approve that,

life HAHAHA…



37 thoughts on “IT IS WHAT IT IS.

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  8. It’s true! Nobody prepare us for life difficulties. Nobody tell us all things that can happen. I had my dad dead at only 60 years old, and my mother was alone and sad. This death changed all our lives. Me, I’ve been abused since 4 years old and my life was destroyed by someone that I’ m not able to remember. So this is life. God! Where was he when I was abused? Sometimes I’m very angry with him. ๐Ÿ˜”

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      1. God helped me choose a job where I can save many children from abuse and mistreatment. So perhaps even the harm that was done to me helped to choose this mission that is so important to me. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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